If you are a man who has difficulty achieving erections firm enough for penetration, you have probably already talked to your doctor and received a prescription. If not, DrSara encourages you to do so. If you don’t already have a urologist, DrSara recommends Dr. Stephen Shaban at Associated Urologists of NC. Dr. Shaban is a board certified urologist and is masterful at establishing rapport with his patients and putting them at ease with his warmth and humor. He is an old fashioned, old school physican who puts his patient’s interests above all else and advocates for the really right treatment. But often, even after ED has been assessed and treated medically, performance anxiety often lingers and can interfere with the effectiveness of even the most potent pills. If this has happened to you, then you might benefit from sex therapy.