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In a healthy and vibrant sexual relationship, the seduction is mutual and never ends.  But what is seduction, actually?  Read The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene to find out.

Mindfulness of the body, and control over the attention is key to sexual pleasure.  Read The Art of Sexual Ecstasy by Margot Anand to learn more about being present to and sustaining pleasure.

For a list of erotica you can visit www.DrSara.com/erotica

How-To Books

She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner

Passionista: The Empowered Woman’s Guide to Pleasuring a Man by Ian Kerner


Tickle Your Fancy: A Woman’s Guide to Sexual Self Pleasure by Sadie Allison

Tickle His Pickle: Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing by Sadie Allison


Therapeutic Toys for Men

Silicone “sleeve” (also known as “pocket pussy” in the vernacular) for use in sensitizing to a more natural environment

C-rings for erection maintenance

Promescent is a numbing lube that should only be used at the end of a course of treatment for PE and before attempting to transfer learning to partnered sexual activity.


Therapeutic Toys for Women

Lelo, the Ferrari of vibrators–silent, chargeable, soft, and multispeed

Pink flower vibrator bullet and finger sleeve

Minna K-goal pelvic floor biofeedback exerciser system with free app.

Graduated weights for pelvic floor resistance exercises.

Preferred silicone dialators sold individually through Amazon, or as a graduated set from Middlesex MD.

Every kind of lube you could ask for from MiddlesexMD.


The Basson Model of Female Sexuality

Bioavailable testosterone calculator


Audio Files

Mindfulness of the body audio file

Diaphramatic breathing instructions audio file

Homework Exercises

Exercises 1 and 2: The vicious cycle of unsatisfying sex

Exercise 3:  Exploring sensuality

Exercise 4: Sexological Exercise

Exercise 5: Watching

Exercise 6: Sexual Touching